“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu
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A Great Day for Growth
Today is a great day to work on myself—and to share what I’m learning with others. Personal growth, especially spiritual growth, doesn’t happen in isolation. It comes when I’m willing to open up, challenge my perspectives, and be humble enough to learn from the world around me.
If I truly want to grow spiritually, I have to be open—not just to my own beliefs, but to the views, values, and principles of all religions. That doesn’t mean I have to agree with everything I hear. It doesn’t mean I have to adopt every practice or doctrine. But it does mean being willing to listen. To seek understanding before judgment. To ask myself honestly: Do I really understand what this person is saying? Or am I reacting from a place of assumption or bias?
There may be parts of certain religions I struggle with. That’s okay. That’s part of being human. But I have to stay mindful that, often, when I take the time to truly listen, I discover that we’re not so different after all. The language may vary. The rituals may look different. But the core teachings—love, compassion, service, connection, reverence—often share a beautiful common ground.
It’s also worth remembering that while religion has been blamed for many acts of war and division throughout history, it has also been a force for incredible good. Religions have fed the hungry, comforted the grieving, sheltered the poor, healed the sick, and inspired generations to live with kindness and purpose. The light far outweighs the shadow.
So today, I choose to be open. I choose to listen. I choose to grow—not just for myself, but so I can better contribute to a more understanding, more connected world.
— Scott Henning
Unconditional Love vs. the Conditions of Being in Love
There’s a deep, sometimes painful truth we often discover in relationships: being in love is filled with conditions—boundaries, expectations, and unspoken rules we place on one another. And that realization can hit hard, especially when we hold the ideal that we should love unconditionally.
So what is unconditional love, really?
It’s love without bounds—complete, unwavering, and offered freely. It’s not about what we get in return. There’s no need for validation, no expectation that the other person will meet our needs in a certain way. It’s a love that holds space for imperfections, sees past the wounds, and still chooses compassion. It’s a love that forgives—even when the pain is real. It’s the kind of love we strive for when our hearts are open wide.
But when we talk about being in love, especially in a close personal relationship, the truth is—we all have conditions.
We have boundaries. Lines that, if crossed, can fracture trust and shift the way we relate to the person we once felt so connected to. Each person brings their own needs into a relationship. Respect, honesty, safety, affection—these aren’t selfish demands; they are the foundation that helps love feel safe and sustainable.
Let’s be real: Can you stay in love if someone hits you, lies to you, cheats on you, or emotionally abuses you? Probably not—not for long. And that doesn’t make your love any less real or pure. It simply reflects the truth that being in love requires mutual respect, kindness, and care.
Now, you may still love that person with an open heart. You may forgive. You may even feel a kind of unconditional love for them. But that doesn’t mean the relationship will survive—or that it should.
So the question becomes: What kind of conditions do we need in a loving relationship so that we can continue to freely give our love, feel safe in it, and allow it to grow?
This is where discernment meets love. Where heart and mind come together. Where we realize that loving someone unconditionally doesn’t mean accepting behavior that breaks us. And being in love doesn’t mean abandoning our self-worth to keep someone close.
Both types of love have their place. But knowing the difference can save us from heartbreak—and lead us toward deeper, more conscious connections.
Love big. Love wisely. Love with an open heart and strong boundaries.
I love you all.
— Scott Henning
Being of Spirit and Human
“Our spirit, and more importantly, our connection with God and the divine energy from which we originate, is what keeps our human side from getting out of control and wreaking havoc on our lives and the lives of those we interact with. This is not to say that being human and pursuing things that benefit our body and environment is inherently wrong. Quite the opposite—being human means we naturally have desires, and it’s not wrong to seek out things that bring us joy or go beyond mere survival. However, when we are in tune with our spirit and aligned with that spiritual energy, we are less likely to engage in actions that could lead us down a destructive path.”
LOVE OF SPIRIT
The love of the spirit is the greatest asset I can ever possess.
To truly respect that I am but a small part of this vast and infinite universe is to embrace humility—and in that humility, I choose love. I choose to let the energy of my spirit radiate love, compassion, and peace. That choice makes me a light—steady, warm, and enduring—shining through the darkness of all that is not love.
With a humble heart, I allow this light to shine—not for recognition, but to offer comfort, healing, and inspiration. I shine so that others may feel safe to open their own hearts. So they, too, can recognize and love the divine spirit within themselves.
In this way, love spreads—not by force, but by resonance. Not by preaching, but by presence.
And in that shared light, we remember: we are never truly alone.
— Scott Henning
Balance in the Masculine and Feminine
We are both human and spirit, children of both the earthly and the divine. We come from the union of the masculine and the feminine—Father Sky and Mother Earth—and we remain forever connected to both. Just as the earth nurtures and sustains us, the vastness of the cosmos calls us to seek wisdom and transcendence. To deny either is to deny part of ourselves. When we recognize that we carry both energies within us, we begin to understand that balance is not about dominance or separation, but about integration. By embracing both aspects, we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, others, and the world we live in.
The masculine and feminine are not meant to be in conflict but in harmony. The masculine brings structure, action, and direction, while the feminine embodies intuition, creation, and nurturance. Neither is superior; neither is complete on its own. Just as the sun and the moon each have their role in the cycle of life, so too do the masculine and feminine energies within us. Finding balance is not about making them identical, but about allowing them to complement each other. True wholeness comes when we honor both forces and use them wisely, not only within ourselves but in how we relate to others.
Men and women are not meant to be the same, nor should they be. The beauty of existence lies in the differences that create harmony. The masculine thrives in purpose and action, while the feminine flourishes in connection and depth. One without the other is incomplete, yet together, they create a fullness that transcends individual limitations. The balance is not about rigid equality but about respect, appreciation, and understanding. It is about recognizing which aspects of each energy serve us in different moments and allowing them to guide us toward deeper relationships and personal growth.
To live in harmony with these forces, we must learn to embrace the traits of the other—not to change who we are, but to become more whole. A man who embraces his ability to nurture does not lose his strength; he refines it. A woman who steps into her power does not abandon her grace; she deepens it. The interplay of these energies allows us to move through life with wisdom and adaptability. Instead of seeing the masculine and feminine as opposing forces, we can see them as two hands working together—distinct, yet essential to the same body.
When we understand that we are both of the heavens and the earth, both masculine and feminine, we begin to live in alignment with the natural order of existence. Balance is not found in denying our nature but in fully embracing it. By recognizing, respecting, and integrating these energies, we build stronger relationships, live more fulfilled lives, and move closer to the wholeness that is our birthright. The harmony between the masculine and feminine is not just a concept—it is a way of being, a path to deeper connection with ourselves, each other, and the universe itself.
I love you. You love me. We’re as happy as can be. With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you, wont you say you love me too.
Welcome to Be One With Me
We are so excited to share in all things love. We love you. The things that are put forth on our pages are meant are to help to continue to provide all our friends a way to grow together spiritually.
BE LOVE
Be love, to love the process of love and love, love-based beliefs. Involve your heart in all that you do, love yourself and what you do, share what you love.
Do what you love, love yourself more than ever, grow and expand to the love that you are, be love.
Sending out love, opens you up to receive love, live love, be love.
Love the days, love the nights, love the good and the bad, love your life!.
Love, just love, feel love, create love, embrace love, love the love essence within.
Love that we are human, always, love being human.
The universe is unconditional love, loves people who love, love the universe.
Bless your home with love, surround yourself with those who love and communicate love openly with those you love, tell them that you love them often.
A little bit of love doesn’t hurt anybody, it helps, to love everybody.
People love attention they deserve, feel accepted and loved, pay attention to accepting and loving.
There is no need to change people, just love them for who they are, love imperfection, love every piece of life.
Love yourself any ways and all ways, love strangers, love family, anyways and always, Say, “I love you.”,”I love you.”,”I love you.”.
Connection with all things in our lives is found in all directions to find our heart center in the NOW.
